Posts Tagged ‘pause’

Stuck in the Middle

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

[To be read to the dulcet tones of Stealers Wheels singing “Stuck in the Middle with You”…]  Have you ever had a time when despite your very best efforts some big cosmic finger [visualise a Monty Python intro  style finger]  keeps punching your pause button?

There are times when you have a plan, and then it snows… or then the car gets smashed up… or then the gutters fall off… or then… or then..  It is the essence of Change that stuff happens to disrupt our plans, but how should we react?  Curse and scream?  Plough straight on somehow?  Listen to what the Universe is trying to tell us?  Find a way to make lemonade?

What do you do?  Wait patiently or take up knitting?

Pressing the "Pause" button

Friday, August 15th, 2008

We have hit a point in our refurbishment plan where for the first time in weeks we have no workmen here, no mess, no noise, no strangers… Not only that but it is that time in our business cycle where many of our clients have gone off for the summer, it feels as if some great cosmic digit has pressed my ‘pause‘ button. That is no bad thing.  It is a bit like the amber traffic signal, which gives us a moment between the two binary extremes of Stop & Go.

The Buddhists believe that one can experience God in the gap between breathing in and breathing out. Winter can be considered the time between Autumn’s fruitfulness and Spring’s new growth. 

Just being in this paused state is quite restful if one doesn’t feel obliged to fight its energy and try to make things happen. 

“The right word may be effective, but no word was ever as effective as a rightly timed pause.”   Mark Twain

“Now and then it’s good to pause in our pursuit of happiness and just be happy.”   Guillaume Apollinaire