Posts Tagged ‘rhythm’

Rhythm and Doing what comes naturally

Tuesday, September 15th, 2009

As regular readers will know, I’ve been taking some time out over the last few weeks  doing a few pet projects and just shifting my focus, pace and rhythm.  The summer is often a quiet time in my line of work (and thought that hasn’t really been the case this year) I usually use this time for planning, writing, networking etc. 

Yesterday was my first full day ‘back to work’ and so obviously today was meant to be day two.  I had an early morning breakfast meeting today and was anticipating getting on with my long list of things to be done.  However, as I was driving home, I realised that I really didn’t feel like doing that.  Now, I’m a pretty disciplined kind of worker and would formally have just told myself “Tough! Get up them stairs and settle down to it mister…”   Today I felt that wasn’t the best response.  Interestingly, after a family weekend away, both my son and wife were both feeling very slowed down too, so I opted to join them in a lazy, gentle day.  There were only a couple of things I had to do that wouldn’t wait till tomorrow.

These days I increasingly feel that wisdom lies in listening and responding to these kind of random urges.  It takes a little courage to do something so counter-cultural, but I place a great deal of value in intuition and feel the only way to really develop it is to respond to it.  If your inner voice is whispering to you, perhaps you might listen to it and try to trust it…

I’d love to hear from you about your experiences and experiments in this…

Entrainment or “watcha clock!”

Thursday, May 1st, 2008

Entrainment is the phenomenon noted by the Dutch scientist Christian Huygens, whereby two oscillating bodies to lock into phase so that they vibrate in harmony. Huygens found that when he placed two pendulum clocks on a wall near each other and swung the pendulums at different rates, they would eventually end up swinging in at the same rate. This is due to their mutual influence on one another. It is also defined as a synchronization of two or more rhythmic cycles. At a very deep level, it is natural for us to synchronise with those around us; one example of this kind of thing is women who live together sharing a similar cycle.

So if it is natural for us to harmonise with those we are in close proximity with, how is it that we so often find it is just these people that drive us nuts? Is it a ‘battle of the vibes’ as one person tries to assert their own native rhythm over the encroachment of the new elements from outside? Is it just ego that tries to kid us that if it doesn’t come from us then it can’t be as good (because that would mean that ‘we’ weren’t as good as ‘them’!)?

Of course all of this goes on at a subconscious level and we either find harmonious relationships or fight them, without any mental processing of why. In fact I would suggest that most ‘reasons’ are just different flavours of justification and rationalisation of what is a very deep process; the drive to live in harmony with our ‘neighbours’.

Perhaps if we relax just a bit more, we can allow this process to work its magic in our lives….

 

“Think of entrainment as being “in sync.” When your head and heart, thoughts and feelings, are working harmoniously together, you have more clarity and inner balance–and you feel better.”

 

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