Is a Tar pit or just Winter?

When you are a feeling stuck, and the changes you are looking for just aren’t occurring there are two metaphors that spring to mind for me.  The first is the tar pit.  These were common in prehistoric times and creatures used to wander into these sticky black, death-traps and, once enmired, they were stuck for all time.  The other is that of winter, when the plants are not growing but that is appropriate and they are just awaiting the new season to begin growing again.

Sometimes the voice of intuition can tell us which it is for us.  Sometimes it takes an act of faith.

What do you do when you find yourself in this kind of place?

โ€œWhat to do if you find yourself stuck in a crack in the ground underneath a giant boulder you can’t move, with no hope of rescue. Consider how lucky you are that life has been good to you so far. Alternatively, if life hasn’t been good to you so far, which given your current circumstances seems more likely, consider how lucky you are that it won’t be troubling you much longer.โ€    Douglas Adams

 

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2 Responses to “Is a Tar pit or just Winter?”

  1. Good reading: What do I do if I find myself stuck?…Take the next exit to Inspiration, take time off, take a walk, talk to others about everything except my issue or whatever it is what is occupying my mind, after awhile I experience the solution ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. Great advice Cornelis, many thanks;I think defocusing often is the very best way to find new ways forwards

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