Posts Tagged ‘assumptions’

The nature of Time

Friday, March 30th, 2012

I listened to a fascinating talk about the history of time keeping and clocks the other day.  It is a very rich area to explore as we take it so much for granted and assume that time is not only constant, but the very idea of time is equally so.  This simply isn’t the case.  Our relationship with this concept is a cultural one and like most cultural artefacts has evolved over time.  If we go back a thousand years, the only people very interested in time were monks who wanted to know when to pray.  The first primitive western clocks had no hands and simply sounded the time to let the monks know it was time for the next office.  The day was divided into 24 parts in the same way as a sundial and our 12 hour convention only emerged later.  The hands of the clock were designed to mimic the sundial which was what most people used to tell the time, and they travel in the same way as the sun travels in the northern hemisphere.  So if clocks had been invented in China first, clockwise would have been the opposite way round!  England didn’t have a standard time until the railways made it possible to travel far enough, fast enough to move from what were, in effect, one time zone to the next.  Each village merely took its time from the local church clock, and as no one could travel far enough, or communicate fast enough to deal with the next ‘time zone’ it didn’t affect anyone.  The only people for whom accurate time  was crucial was navigators, and the British Navy offered vast prizes to the inventors of a more accurate chronometer, as this provided competitive, strategic advantage to them.

All of this is fascinating in itself, but it is a wonderful example of how social and cultural constructs are not rigid and self-evident.  That as we talk to people from other cultures these things morph and we need to be aware of this.  The importance of punctuality and the rules that govern it change all over Europe.   This is just one tiny example of how complex communication is and why it is so hard to do it with precision.  The first rule is to be clear what you are really trying to say, then framing it in such a way as your audience can understand that.  Even this concept is apparently cultural.  In China and Germany there is an expectation that the audience will work to understand the meaning, in the UK the onus is on the speaker to adjust his message to his listeners! 

Communication is such a vital skill in life and business, and yet hangs on such a fragile thread…

“Behaviour in the human being is sometimes a defence, a way of concealing motives and thoughts, as language can be a way of hiding your thoughts and preventing communication.”   Abraham Maslow

“Communication is two-sided – vital and profound communication makes demands also on those who are to receive it… demands in the sense of concentration, of genuine effort to receive what is being communicated.”  Roger Sessions

Filling the gaps

Sunday, June 1st, 2008

You may recall that Cooke Towers is being refurbished, and that we have being going through all sorts of chaos as the virtual heart has been torn out of our home. We are camping in the Utility Room and cooking on a single ring plus a microwave. It feels pretty basic, but I am also aware that there are many families in Burma and China that would love to have what we have right now.

I think the nadir of the process was the day I came home to holes in the walls and holes in the floor. It just seemed to break some fundamental integrity of the room. Oddly, once these holes were repaired, and the walls replastered, I started feeling better about it all. As you can gather from the picture, we have begun to regain some structure, having put in base and wall units. It is still very much work in progress but now I can fill-in the missing gaps and have some idea what we will be left with.

The human brain is brilliant at doing this and will always try to join up the dots to make sense of our data, and convincing as these hypotheses may be, they only represent guesses. However, we often act on them as if they were truths. We assume motivation, we infer meaning and significance from things that others do and fail to do hardly stopping to consider that we, as mere bit part actors in their dramas may be totally irrelevant to them in that instant.

If you find yourself stewing over an imagined slight, rather than feeling bad, go and talk to them and check your facts and interpretation. 9 times out 10 you will find that you were wrong enough to make this a valuable exercise.

“We simply assume that the way we see things is the way they really are or the way they should be. And our attitudes and behaviors grow out of these assumptions.” Stephen R. Covey

“Begin challenging your own assumptions. Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in awhile, or the light won’t come in.” Alan Alda

Resources:

  1. Previous kitchen blogs here and here