Posts Tagged ‘lables’

Even junk mail has its use

Sunday, April 5th, 2009

I woke up this morning and looked at my blackberry, and something seemed wrong… no flashing led, no email icon.  It wasn’t that I was expecting deluges of interesting and important mail, but usually I have to start the day by deleting the few spam mails that crawl through my filters.  The interesting thing was my reaction; my first thought was my blackberry must be faulty.  I even resorted to sending a test mail.  It was thus I realised that these annoying spams did serve one useful purpose, they do prove daily that my connections are working.

It is interesting how, if we change how we look at things, rather than just trying to change the things we look at we can find all sorts of value.  Take a fresh look around you and see if you can’t find some value in apparent  ‘rubbish’….  You might also enjoy this story of the Fields of Diamonds

Try not to become a man of success. Rather become a man of value.”   Albert Einstein 

 

Apeiness is….

Wednesday, April 1st, 2009

Another interesting insight into the behaviour of our nearest primate relatives has got experts debating whether they really are part of the same species as us.  The behaviour of one the female gorillas, Zaire, has got experts talking.  It appears she may have been able to train / encourage another species (small squirrel monkeys) to bring her food titbits.  

One of our very human traits is classifying things and people.  We are very keen on our labels.   Labelling gorillas as animals allows us to imprison and ill-treat them.  That is bad enough but we label other people too.  “He’s trouble!”  “She’s stupid”  “They are a waste of time..”    This not only cuts us of from seeing and releasing their potential but also prevents any real communication as we seldom listen to the contribution of those we have labelled in this way.

If you are trying to get the best our of your people, whether at work or at home.. don’t label them, just observe, attend and note what they do, you’ll be surprised by the results!

“We are all just monkeys in business suits running around pretending to be executives”

“I’ve actually gone to the zoo and had monkeys shout to me from their cages, “I’m in here when you’re walking around like that?””    Robin Williams

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