Posts Tagged ‘paths’

The unseen path

Wednesday, March 2nd, 2011

I was out walking today and fascinated by how often,even when you were in the right place and very close, you still couldn’t make out where the path goes, and as someone with a love of metaphors, it occurred to me that this often happens in real life too.  How often do we feel that we can’t see our way forward when it turns out that the thing we are seeking is right in front of us?  Sometimes you just have to change our perspective a little bit, in order to find it.  As someone who does coaching sometimes I can see someone’s way forward, but until they can too, there is no progress.

So a little thought for those of you/us who perhaps are feeling a little lost, maybe what you need is hiding in plain sight and you just need to shift your perspective to spot it?  I hope so!

“No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.”   Buddha

When being on track is being lost…

Wednesday, November 25th, 2009

I was out walking again today, and as ever, it taught me a few things of broader application.  The number of times today that we were happily marching along a clear, straight path, and according to our plan, we were meant to proceeding along a straight path… so no problem, right?  Wrong!  Sometimes, and in fact several times today, the straight path on the map was not same as the one we were walking along.  Knowing when to turn to stay on track is a skill that is very useful.

Another time we were marching along, I was confident that I knew exactly were we were and I saw a road “What is that doing there?” I asked, “There is no road on the map…”   Of course, we weren’t where I thought I was, and I should have seen the road and asked “Where are we really?”   It is so easy to assume that you are where you wish you where, rather than taking account of the evidence before you. 

Despite this little catalogue of minor navigational glitches today, we continued to adjust what we did and had a wonderful walk in beautiful November sunlight; as the sun is so low in the sky now, it produces wonderful gentle and contrasting tones.  Sometimes we need to remember our higher purpose, and today it was simply to be somewhere lovely and get some exercise; my original route was merely one way to do this, and not necessarily the best one.

Having a plan, and working that plan and reaching your goal are not always the same things.  Remembering why you are doing what you are doing is the key to successful navigation and much else….

“Oh, my ways are strange ways and new ways and old ways, And deep ways and steep ways and high ways and low, I’m at home and at ease on a track that I know not, And restless and lost on a road that I know”    Henry Lawson

 

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Video Blog: Lost in the dark

Friday, November 20th, 2009

 

This is a video that explores some of the ideas of yesterday’s blog.  I’d be very interested to know whether the video format adds anything for you and how you feel about it…

The Hidden Path

Thursday, July 24th, 2008

Another feature of yesterday’s walk was the number of times we struggled to find a footpath. Now I’m no Ray Mears, but I’m not bad at navigation; added to which I had a handy GPS and map. Often we would be standing within 20 yards or so of where the path was meant to be and we could see nothing but vegetation. As I explained yesterday, it was pretty over grown, but in addition to that, often shifting your view point by even a few feet made all the difference.

I wonder how often in life, if we just shifted our viewpoint a little bit suddenly we would see our paths? How often don’t we see the path for the trees?

“I dreamed a thousand new paths. . . I woke and walked my old one.” Chinese Proverbs