Posts Tagged ‘planning’

Finding for myself

Thursday, November 5th, 2009

  As regular readers will know, I am a keen walker.  One of my walks usually involves some planning.  I  plot out the route on PC mapping software [Memorymap] and download that to a GPS [Satmap].  Some are routes I create, others I find in books and magazines.  I often don’t know the walk and I love the adventure of going somewhere new and the challenge of getting round the route without getting (too) lost!  I’m very lucky in living somewhere that has some of the most beautiful scenery that England, and perhaps, the World has to offer.

In these turbulent times, when a lot of people are trying to find their way, I have had this odd feeling feeling that somehow if I walk enough, somewhere out there I’ll find myself, or at least my way forward.  It isn’t rational, but I do feel that way, and the worst case scenario is that I’ll get some healthy exercise in some lovely countryside.

Does this odd idea have any resonance for you?  Have you tried anything like this?  If so did it work for you?

“All you need is the plan, the road map, and the courage to press on to your destination.”   Earl Nightingale

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Planning is human (or easy with the Dymo buddy!)

Tuesday, March 10th, 2009

I remember when I was younger hearing some  ‘expert’ saying that the thing that differentiated man from the animals was our ability to make & use tools.  That myth has since been exploded many times over as it has been shown that chimps can use sticks to extract termites form the their nests, water to separate rice, and even birds use stones to crack the shells of their prey animals.

Never mind, surely planning ahead is a purely human trait after all it requires you to anticipate future events and act on your preferences.  Not so apparently.  A 31 yr old chimp called Santino in Furvik zoo in Sweden doesn’t like visitors intruding on his privacy and he communicates this by flinging stones at them.  Apparently he isn’t the only great ape to do this but what was a big surprise was when the zoo keeper found he was caching his ammunition ahead of time so he had plenty of stones to throw!  Not only that but he pounds the concrete to make discus like projectiles.

So it seems the dividing line between man and his closest cousins isn’t is planning either .. .perhaps it is his hubris?  We are so anxious to label everything and having labelled it we can then safely dismiss it.  I suspect that labels and standard responses are uniquely human.  Of course this saves us a lot of time  and is one of the corner stones of our advance up the evolutionary ladder but it also has inherent problems, especially when the ‘thing’ we are labelling is another person.  Comments such as “Oh Joe.. he’s just a trouble maker!” enable us to cease to listen to anything Joe says.  The trouble is that sometimes Joe is right! 

Having recently been on the periphery of a spat on a social network, I can see that this might well have been at the root of the misunderstanding.  I know that when I recently met someone who had often been labelled as a bit of an idiot, I was very impressed with the real person.  We have to be very careful what we do with our labels.

“Labels are for cans, not people.”   Anthony Rapp

 

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The Five Step plan to …

Wednesday, March 4th, 2009

If you google “five steps” you’ll find recipes for fight stressing, finding happiness, getting fit, staying sane and an even great sex!  We seem to live in a culture where increasingly people expect this kind of thing.  I have to say, this seems to be one of the less desirable imports from the US.  It seems to offer such  assurance; it says “These people know what they are doing!”  The other day, I was listening to a reported conversation of someone who had been of a course which would now allow them to go straight to the root of their clients woes.  I can almost guarantee that in a year’s time their teacher will have yet another ‘new improved’ module available which willkill all known germs.

In my experience, life and business are a journey.   Like all journeys one can only see to the next bend in the road.  There are always surprises, both good and bad; there are always things one can not control.  It is oft quoted in military circles that “No plan survives contact with the enemy”, and this is certainly true.  Does this mean that you needn’t plan?  Of course not!  What you do need is a system that frequently reviews if you are on track and if you need to change.  It is often helpful to have someone to talk things through with who can offer a different perspective, hence the rise in popularity of coaches and mentors.

“When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don’t adjust the goals, adjust the action steps.”   Confucius

“It is important to expect nothing, to take every experience, including the negative ones, as merely steps on the path, and to proceed.”   Ram Dass

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