Posts Tagged ‘signs’

Spring blossom… signs of hope

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

As I drove into London today, the sun was shining, even though it was pretty chilly and we had frost this morning.  I was literally thrilled to see my first trees in blossom, huge white clouds of blossom… I really felt it was a gift.  In many ways this is my favourite seasonal change, and the Japanese in my soul exults when it sees the trees bloom.  They tell us winter is over, that warmer weather in on the way.  In the past it would have meant that there was fresh food on the table after the limited winter fare.  I think we all need a sign things are getting better from time-to-time, and certainly, economically we could do with this now, and on a more personal note, I know we could!

Signs of hope help us on difficult journeys and remind us what we were working towards and it is important in change programs to ensure people can see the light at the end of the tunnel.

“Once you choose hope, anything’s possible.”  Christopher Reeve

Secret Signs

Tuesday, December 16th, 2008

We drove past this wonderful sign yesterday in Essex.  The idea of a road sign to a secret installation is just too wonderful not to celebrate… it is pure Lewis Carroll.

The thing is, we are always giving off secret signs to each other; sending coded messages about what we want or need.  We usually are under the impression that we are communicating clearly, but the reality is that the other person is often blissfully unaware of hidden message contained within the text.  Things like “Do what you want..” meaning if you don’t pick the right option I won’t speak to you for a week!

We often do this as a test, or as a means of self-protection, there are as many motives as there are strategies.  The thing is that if we are going to communicate effectively we have to both avoid coding our real meanings and  also have to be aware that words might not mean what they say… I truly think that communicating clearly is one of our greatest challenges.

“The colossal misunderstanding of our time is the assumption that insight will work with people who are unmotivated to change. Communication does not depend on syntax, or eloquence, or rhetoric, or articulation but on the emotional context in which the message is being heard. People can only hear you when they are moving toward you, and they are not likely to when your words are pursuing them. Even the choices words lose their power when they are used to overpower. Attitudes are the real figures of speech”   Edwin H. Friedman

Signs… or not?

Monday, May 5th, 2008

Yesterday I came across an amusing street sign and spent an amusing interlude searching for others. However, as ever, it got me thinking. The whole point about signs is they are meant to give clear information; that is their raison être. We want to know where we are, and what we should do, and signs are there to tell us. We are surrounded by signs; street signs, speed limits, directions, business names, legal disclaimers, we are positively awash with signs.

I guess it is unsurprising then that we scan our world for other sorts of sign, more primitive ones to tell us what is going to happen; is it going to rain? What kind of day will it be? Of course in less sophisticated times this was very important and part of man’s survival toolkit. In this digital, cyberspace era, we tend not to be as connected with our world and look to the TV for our information. However, at a deeper level we still scan our environment for signs; is my world safe? Are things getting better or worse? What is coming over my horizon?

I some times catch myself noticing apparently random patterns and wondering if they are telling me something. Is this a good or bad day for this kind of activity? I can’t tell you definitively if these occurrences are signs I am reading (or should be reading!) or just random happenings I should just ignore. My feeling is that our world is rich with patterns that can be read and can guide us, in much the same way that the Bushmen can follow an animal that has passed days ago in the desert. You will have to make up your own mind. It might be interesting though to see which is more helpful, scanning for ‘signs’ and then paying attention to their messages or just ignoring them all as irrelevant and stupid…

 

“Whenever you have truth it must be given with love, or the message and the messenger will be rejected” Mahatma Gandhi