I suspect that it is a feeling we all get from time-to-time, whether it happens at a party, a family gathering or an online group, sometimes it just feels that we are on the outside of what is going on.  I noticed this with a virtual community, that at times I have been very active in, at the moment there either is nothing going on that interests me or I somehow just don’t get what is going on.

Common sense (and Occam’s razor) says that the simplest explanation is the most likely one; chances are nothing ‘out there’ has changed and it is just me.  The thing is that all the time that it is ‘just me’ then I guess I have the ability to change what is happening by changing what I do.

So often in life we blame others for our happiness or lack there of.  It can be tough to accept that we might be responsible for what is going on

“We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.”  Tom Robbins
“When looking for faults use a mirror, not a telescope”